Sports, drama and a blast

By Chitra Ahanthem This week saw two major incidents: one was literally a loud blast in our own backyard `“ the bomb blast at MG Avenue and the other happened

By Chitra Ahanthem

This week saw two major incidents: one was literally a loud blast in our own backyard `“ the bomb blast at MG Avenue and the other happened in far away Incheon in South Korea. The former left casualties, one dead and many injured. The later incident is still seeing reverberations in the media, in the sporting world and amongst the public. The bomb blast was not the first of its kind-we have seen such cases, a blast in the heart of Imphal where non migrant people could have been or not been the actual targets and then on with life as usual. What happened with Sarita (host country using unfair means to get their medal tally on the increase) and her own action thereafter despite many feeling she was `unsporting`™ in her stand of not accepting her medal has rallied people not just from Manipur or the North Eastern states but across the country as well. With the bomb blast, a sit in protest, a few releases denouncing the attack and the heads of state calling the incident `unfortunate`™ and `act of terrorism`™ is all there is to it. But there`™s more to be read into the Sarita incident, which is what this column will be about.

It`™s no secret that sports have never been accorded the respect and support that it needs in this country. Barring cricket that has got the kind of infrastructural and financial support and the media attention, no other sports discipline gets close to being promoted. But things kind of shifted in a very subtle manner following the Commonwealth Games hosted in Delhi. Yes, the media coverage did start with the scams around the Games but to be fair, it did stay on the athletes and sportspersons in the arena. And then, it became almost fashionable for various media outlets to come up with stories of sportspersons left out in the cold without any Government support: which explains why there is no dearth of former medal winners living a life of poverty, squalor and neglect. This is not to say that such stories are needed: in fact, they are necessary as they expose the almost callous nature of Sports officials and the blind eye that the Sports Ministry and various associations associated with Sports in the country.
But in the end, what all these stories have ended up doing is make this apathy towards sportspersons in the country almost normal and acceptable and that we are all fine with how things are going.

And yet, when Laishram Sarita refused to accept her bronze medal, it was as if the floodgates of public opinion gushed forth. The last time I did a Google news search, there were more than 1000 news items on the medal. On social media networks, the wave of comments made Sarita `trend`™ (which means most talked about) with the most heartwarming take away being that mainstream media were suddenly talking about the trails of sportspersons besides slamming sports officials. The swell of support that the boxer has received from people across countries and regions has not been kept in the real of media footprints and the online world but has brought other forms of support in terms of awards. The most interesting is the one that has come in from the Olympic Gold Quest, an initiative started by Geet Sethi, a professional Billiards player and winner of various tittles and Prakash Padukone, again a well respected sportsperson who has bagged various international tittles in Badminton. The agency has not only honoured the boxer with a cash award of Rs 10 lakhs but has also earmarked another 10 lakhs to take care of her training needs. Another boxer that this agency has been supporting for the past many years is of course Mary Kom who may well find herself facing some rough times in wake of her most recent comments over Sarita refusing to take her medal.

End-point:

Mary Kom, as we know earlier said she kind of showed her support for Sarita when she said that the later was treated unfairly but in her most recent interviews said that Sarita should not have done what she did. When regular folks go into the right and wrong of what Sarita did at the medal ceremony, it is not such a huge thing but to have Mary Kom and Sarita pitted one against the another is a little bit unfortunate given that there was an earlier incident involving Mary Kom where she was said to have said before the media in Mizoram that Manipuri media was baised against her and in favor of Sarita. This was of course a reference to the rumblings over Mary `taking over`™ Sarita`™s weight category for her Olympic participation. If Mary Kom`™s latest statement snowballs into a major controversy given the state of the public emotions, she should not be surprised. After all, Manipuris love ethos and drama.

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Mind Matters

By Paonam Thoibi `Anxiety isn`™t always a bad thing; it helps you stay alert and focused` Q: I have heard so much about Anxiety Disorder. Also most of the people

By Paonam Thoibi

`Anxiety isn`™t always a bad thing; it helps you stay alert and focused`

Q: I have heard so much about Anxiety Disorder. Also most of the people I come across at, workplace seem to be having anxiety related to work stress, family etc. Are we all suffering from anxiety? Do we all need treatment, counseling or therapy? Name withheld

Ans: Anxiety is the body`™s natural response to danger, an automatic alarm that goes off when you feel threatened, under pressure, or are facing a stressful situation. It is something which everyone experiences.

In moderation, anxiety isn`™t always a bad thing. It helps you stay alert and focused. But when anxiety is constant or overwhelming, when it interferes with your relationships and activities, when it gets characterised by marked negative effect, bodily symptoms of tension, restlessness, increased heart beat and muscle tension- that`™s when people should check if they are suffering from Anxiety Disorder.

There are different types of Anxiety Disorders and each of them is managed with specific treatment procedures- often a combination of both psychopharmacological interventions (medicines) along with psychological therapeutic intervention.

The major types of Anxiety Disorder are: Generalised anxiety disorder (GAD), Specific phobia (sometimes called simple phobia), Social phobia, Panic attack, Obsessive- compulsive disorder (OCD), Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

If at all you are disturbed by the amount of anxiety you are having, it is strictly recommended that you have a checkup at the nearest health facility center. You may need to measure the level of stress and accordingly start a management plan.

Q: Dear Madam, I am doing my general Arts stream studies now. I am really interested to do my masters in Psychology and try to become a Counselor. I love understanding people and their behavior but also know that this is not enough. What are the other characteristics or qualities one should have to become an efficient counselor? `“Subalaxmi, Kwakeithel.

Ans: Dear Subalaxmi, it is very good to know that many people are preparing to get into this helping profession. I believe you must be having all the qualities that are required to become a good counselor. The interest to become one is the first and foremost quality that will take you through the long and hard journey to become a skilled counselor.

I`™m sure you must know that to be a counselor, you need a lot `“ and I say again, a lot of Patience. It may take time for anyone you come across to accept certain things and pain in their lives and still more time to move towards positive changes. You should not be tired to discuss something wholeheartedly many times before they are prepared to make a move in any particular direction. Also, small incremental progress in your client`™s life should be noticed and rejoiced. A good listening skill is required as you will do more listening than talking. Yes, counseling is not talking nicely; it is more of listening with understanding. You should give your client time to express their feelings, confusion, doubts, emotions, anger etc. An ability to empathise- or understanding the way your client is feeling- exactly. Also, compassionately respond to their complaints about their problems. They should feel that you truly care about them. Even if you don`™t agree with their perspective, you still need the ability to understand how it feels to them in order to address their issue effectively. However, it`™s important that you are not too empathetic. Some people struggle as counselors because they are unable to maintain objectivity and therefore carry home the emotional stress of the job. The level of empathy necessary can be a fine line between helpful to client and harmful to counselor

When you are not yet a counselor, you must know that a genuine concern yields positive results. A nonjudgmental attitude is a must in counseling. Counselors hear all kinds of private information and encounter all types of people. You may hear dark secrets from someone`™s past involving such things as sexual or criminal behavior. You must do you best to refrain from judgment and instead communicate positively- respecting them as a person. You must also not push your cultural or religious views upon them. Multicultural competency is a necessary skill.

Confidentiality is of upmost importance when you are a counselor. You must be able to maintain confidentiality so the client can trust you with their most intimate concerns. Lastly, self- awareness about your own fears, insecurities, and weaknesses will be effective in the therapeutic relationship. It is important that you do not react defensively to what a client shares. You must be able to keep your own feelings out of the session. You will be better able to do this if you are self-aware. In addition, self-aware individuals are more intuitive with regards to solving their own problems and can use that knowledge to help clients through similar situations.

I would really encourage you to take up this profession and see how fulfilling it is both personally and professionally.

Readers are requested to send in their queries at mindmifp@gmail.com

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Live the moment

By Tinky Ningombam A while back, I got a rather inopportune call from one of my relatives. Unlucky for him, I was not in the best of moods and hence

By Tinky Ningombam

A while back, I got a rather inopportune call from one of my relatives. Unlucky for him, I was not in the best of moods and hence I sounded more grim and serious than ever. To which, his obvious comment implied that I have changed from a happy and positive person to a serious one and advised me that I must not take so much pressure in life. Harmless as it was, his words led the pragmatist in me to pose the likely question: if stressing to find solutions to problems is not a positive aspect, then what is?

Let us set our context straight. One of the biggest lie in the history of modern psychology is making people believe that positive thinking eliminates all your worries and makes you more successful. This western concept has been interpreted in a lot of absurd ways such as having happy thoughts all the time makes one a happy person. Thinking about only the positives in life makes you into a positive person. Acknowledging the most positive aspects of another person makes you think of them positively. You must have heard of all of them before, these are not my imaginary constructs. These are teachings and corporate lectures, all based on the `Be Positive` cult that has spread so much hogwash.

What positive thinking does is to make us believe that if we have the positive thoughts, something good is bound to happen always, as if it`™s inevitable. The universe conspires to it. Magically, all good things will attached themselves to me if my conviction towards good thoughts are strong.

Humans being narcissistic and self-obsessed do tend to believe that they are God`™s gift, we demand nothing but the best for ourselves. `I have never done anything wrong to people, I have always had good thoughts, I have always been positive to people, why is nothing good happening to me?`

We constantly undermine that in a person`™s life, there will be ups and downs. Because we focus so much on the highs that we ignore the lows and have a hard time accepting it. We cannot acknowledge it and hence we do not tackle it. We want to take life in an upward curve, the perpetual high, riding the pinnacle of success. Hence our flawed definition of success is constructed by man-made achievements that there is no place for the `chance occurring`. Fate or Fortune is something that we have discarded as vague concepts. We have forgotten to accept destiny or chance to govern our likely outcome. Hence when we see and hear of people with positive thoughts succeeding in life, we believe that all our human endeavours will be translated its weight in gold. While Goddess Fortuna (goddess of Fortune) spinning her Rota Fortunae, the wheel of Fortune might have bigger plans.

Rather be a pragmatist. Think of multiple outcomes if at all you need to think. Plan A: something good happens. Plan B: something bad happens. And then there`™s Plan C: the chance occurring.

Thoughts and outcomes are very subjective. First of all, we cannot force down an emotion/thought/fantasy on someone. You cannot smile all the time and force yourself to think you are happy. It has to come in naturally. You have to naturally positive in order to feel positive. If there is a `negative` threat, you have to deal with it head on and not ignore it, hiding behind your positive reinforcements. What it does is to blur your reality.

If I didn`™t study for my exams, all the good thoughts in the world cannot make me pass it. It is wrong to tell people to be overly optimistic without putting in the hard-work required for it. And this is exactly what the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology research on positive thinking proved. It said: `Positive fantasies that idealize the future are found to be inversely related to achievement over time: the more positively the fantasies are experienced, the less effort do people invest in realizing these fantasies, and the lower is their success in achieving them.` The more people fantasise of success or positive outcomes, the less effort they put into the job. When you constantly tell your kid that you see a very bright future for them and that being a member of your famed family, he/she is going to be as successful or bright or a genius, without teaching them how to get there, then that is a false reinforcement. When he/she grows up, if fortune does not favour, they will most likely land up in more depression. The correct way is to tell them that to cope with the harsh realities of life as they would the good parts, learn to handle the pressure of failure and that of success and to worry less of the future and live in the Present.

(`The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.` `“ Gautama Buddha)

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Japanese tourist with suspected Ebola symptoms kept in JNIMS isolation ward

Blood samples of patient sent to Pune lab, results awaited IMPHAL, October 5: A Japanese national who recently entered the State from Myanmar and having Ebola-like symptoms is being kept

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Blood samples of patient sent to Pune lab, results awaited

IMPHAL, October 5: A Japanese national who recently entered the State from Myanmar and having Ebola-like symptoms is being kept in an isolation ward at Jawaharlal Nehru Institute of Medical Sciences (JNIMS) with tests results awaited, said hospital officials.

The patient is identified as Kawakubo Yuko, 27 and is now kept at the female medicine ward special ward unit 3 bed no 7 of JNIMS (having patient number 1415011125).

Although nothing could be confirmed at this stage, epidemiologists had sent her blood samples to the National Institute of Virology, Pune yesterday.

The reports are expected to be delivered within 48 hours of sending the samples.

Several tests conducted on her including Kidney Function Test, Liver Function Test, Malaria MP OptiMAL, scrub typhoid anti-body, optimal rapid malaria, complete hemogram have turned out to be negative so far, said JNIMS medical superintendent Dr W Gopimohon.

However, as a precautionary measure, doctors and nurses attending the patient were seen wearing bio hazard suits.

According to Dr Gopimohan, Yuko was admitted in JNIMS around 3pm yesterday.

She was brought in from Raj Medicity, North AOC.

He said the patient was brought to Raj Medicity from Classic Hotel with complaints of high fever recorded to be above 100 degree Celsius.

The patient was examined by a doctor identified as Dr Digen at Raj Medicity and underwent Typhoid test, which however turned negative, he continued.

Further according to the JNIMS MS, the patient`™s body temperature was recorded at 99.4 degree Celsius and blood pressure at 11/70 at the time of her admission to the hospital.

Dr Gopimohan said she was on her way to Nagaland from Myanmar and Manipur was only a stopover.

She had left Tokyo in June for Singapore by air and travelled to five countries in the region including Malaysia and Myanmar. From Myanmar, she crossed over to Manipur on her way to Nagaland, he said.

Her itinerary also included travelling on trains and she had also spent 20 days at Tamu waiting for her visa to enter Indian Territory, he said.

However, the three other countries where she had travelled to from Malaysia couldn`™t be confirmed, Dr Gopimohon continued.

After acquiring her visa she entered into India and checked in at Classic Hotel, however her date of arrival at the hotel cannot be confirmed, he said.

Dr Gopimohon also informed that the Director of Health Services, Manipur had officially intimated JNIMS to prepare for an isolation ward.

However, since isolation ward was not available at JNIMS, two senior doctors Dr Lokeshwar and Dr Biren suggested referring the patient to RIMS which has the appropriate facility, but due to strong instruction from the director, she is being kept at JNIMS.

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Foundation stone of a market complex in Muslim concentrated area in Manipur laid – TwoCircles.net

TwoCircles.netFoundation stone of a market complex in Muslim concentrated area in Manipur laidTwoCircles.netThe function was also graced by Rajya Sabha MP Haji Abdus Salam, Parliamentary Secretary of Department of Minorities & OBCs Md. Amin Shah, P…


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Foundation stone of a market complex in Muslim concentrated area in Manipur laid
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The function was also graced by Rajya Sabha MP Haji Abdus Salam, Parliamentary Secretary of Department of Minorities & OBCs Md. Amin Shah, President of Manipur Pradesh Youth Congress (MPYC) Amir Hussain, President of Kshetrigao Block Congress …

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Judicial panel slams Army for human rights violation in Manipur – India Today


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Judicial panel slams Army for human rights violation in Manipur
India Today
SC had told the UPA government last year that AFSPA could result in extra-judicial killings and it has to end if Manipur needs to be fully integrated with India.Damning reports submitted to the Supreme Court by two panels of judges have confirmed that
‘There is no respect for human life’: Armed forces ‘raped or killed’ nearly Daily Mail

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India Today

Judicial panel slams Army for human rights violation in Manipur
India Today
SC had told the UPA government last year that AFSPA could result in extra-judicial killings and it has to end if Manipur needs to be fully integrated with India.Damning reports submitted to the Supreme Court by two panels of judges have confirmed that
'There is no respect for human life': Armed forces 'raped or killed' nearly Daily Mail

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DAVP Photo Exhibition

The Field Exhibition Office, Directorate of Advertising Visual Publicity DAVP , Ministry of Information Broadcasting, Government of India, Imphal is organizing a five day photo exhibition on the theme ‘Health Family Welfare’ at Biramangol Colleg…

The Field Exhibition Office, Directorate of Advertising Visual Publicity DAVP , Ministry of Information Broadcasting, Government of India, Imphal is organizing a five day photo exhibition on the theme ‘Health Family Welfare’ at Biramangol College, Sawombung in Imphal East from October 8 to 12 Source Hueiyen News Service

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Flight cancelled, passengers left in quandary

Annoyed by the attitude of Indian Airlines officials, passengers of Air India Flight IA 890 went back from the Imphal Tulihal International airport at around 8 Source The Sangai Express

Annoyed by the attitude of Indian Airlines officials, passengers of Air India Flight IA 890 went back from the Imphal Tulihal International airport at around 8 Source The Sangai Express

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Yoga, body building fitness contest

The 3rd State Level Yoga Physique Championship 2014 12th Mr Imphal West District and 1st Women Fitness Contest organized jointly by Yoga Physique Institute Studies Manipur Imphal West District Body Building Fitness Association and All Manipur Bod…

The 3rd State Level Yoga Physique Championship 2014 12th Mr Imphal West District and 1st Women Fitness Contest organized jointly by Yoga Physique Institute Studies Manipur Imphal West District Body Building Fitness Association and All Manipur Body Building Fitness Association were held at Manipur Dramatic Union MDU , Yaiskul Police Lane in Imphal West today Source Hueiyen News Service

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UG cadre held

Based on specific intelligence regarding the movement of a UG cadre, troops of the 20 Assam Rifles and 6 DOGRA of 26 Sector AR under the aegis of HQ IGAR South launched a joint operation at Heigrutampak and apprehended one UNLF cadre yesterday Sour…

Based on specific intelligence regarding the movement of a UG cadre, troops of the 20 Assam Rifles and 6 DOGRA of 26 Sector AR under the aegis of HQ IGAR South launched a joint operation at Heigrutampak and apprehended one UNLF cadre yesterday Source The Sangai Express

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O Joy, Chandramani to support in finding practical mechanism for ILP implementation

Senior politicians O Joy and Dr L Chandramani assured the All Political Party ILP Committee on Saturday to extend support in finding out a clear and practical mechanism for Inner Line Permit ILP system implementation in Manipur Source Hueiyen News…

Senior politicians O Joy and Dr L Chandramani assured the All Political Party ILP Committee on Saturday to extend support in finding out a clear and practical mechanism for Inner Line Permit ILP system implementation in Manipur Source Hueiyen News Service NNN

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Swachh Bharat campaign

As part of the Swachh Bharat campaign launched by the Government of India, employees and agents of Life Insurance Corporation of India, Kakching branch office undertook the ‘Swachchta Shapat’ cleanliness pledge on October 2 at it office premises So…

As part of the Swachh Bharat campaign launched by the Government of India, employees and agents of Life Insurance Corporation of India, Kakching branch office undertook the ‘Swachchta Shapat’ cleanliness pledge on October 2 at it office premises Source The Sangai Express

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Consultation on Career Counseling held

A day long consultation meet on the theme ‘The Importance of Career Counseling’ was organized by Career Click in association with Manipur Institute of Management Studies MIMS , Manipur University at the lecture hall of MIMS here today Source Hueiye…

A day long consultation meet on the theme ‘The Importance of Career Counseling’ was organized by Career Click in association with Manipur Institute of Management Studies MIMS , Manipur University at the lecture hall of MIMS here today Source Hueiyen News Service

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Wildlife Week observance prog concludes

As a culmination of the wildlife week observance programme, the District Forest Office, CCpur today released several wild creatures, which were handed over by four individuals in response to the department’s public appeal, at Hengkot jungle Source T…

As a culmination of the wildlife week observance programme, the District Forest Office, CCpur today released several wild creatures, which were handed over by four individuals in response to the department’s public appeal, at Hengkot jungle Source The Sangai Express Guite Zimik

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GB meeting of MWSAP held

The general body meeting of Manipuri Welfare Society of Arunachal Pradesh MWSAP was held at the Conference Hall of Bharat Scouts and Guides, Polo Colony at Naharlagun in Itanagar today Source Hueiyen News Service JNN

The general body meeting of Manipuri Welfare Society of Arunachal Pradesh MWSAP was held at the Conference Hall of Bharat Scouts and Guides, Polo Colony at Naharlagun in Itanagar today Source Hueiyen News Service JNN

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By poll fracas

Angry locals of Langmeidong under Kakching police station of Thoubal district today staged a protest rally against erection of a stage for a campaign rally for INC nominee for Hiyanglam by poll to be held on October 17, reports NNN Source The Sangai…

Angry locals of Langmeidong under Kakching police station of Thoubal district today staged a protest rally against erection of a stage for a campaign rally for INC nominee for Hiyanglam by poll to be held on October 17, reports NNN Source The Sangai Express

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Hiyanglam Byelection Tussle over campaign rally preparations

Angry locals of Langmeidong under Kakching of Thoubal district today staged a protest rally against erection of a stage for a campaign rally for INC nominee for Hiyanglam by poll to be held on October 17 Source Hueiyen News Service NNN

Angry locals of Langmeidong under Kakching of Thoubal district today staged a protest rally against erection of a stage for a campaign rally for INC nominee for Hiyanglam by poll to be held on October 17 Source Hueiyen News Service NNN

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Shot dead

One cadre of the NSCN Khole Kitovi NSCN KK has been shot dead by suspected cadres of rival NSCN IM in between Karong Khongnem Thana in Senapati district Source The Sangai Express

One cadre of the NSCN Khole Kitovi NSCN KK has been shot dead by suspected cadres of rival NSCN IM in between Karong Khongnem Thana in Senapati district Source The Sangai Express

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Id greetings

Governor Dr KK Paul and Chief Minister O Ibobi have extended warm wishes to the people of the State particularly Muslim brethren on the auspicious occasion of Id Ul Zuha Source The Sangai Express

Governor Dr KK Paul and Chief Minister O Ibobi have extended warm wishes to the people of the State particularly Muslim brethren on the auspicious occasion of Id Ul Zuha Source The Sangai Express

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